This blog is a personal blog, unlike the Bible Observations blog. Because this is more personal, I don’t really pressure myself to post every day. Sometimes, though, I want to write and be creative. A lot of the time, what I really get the urge to have the feeling of typing on a computer and have the feeling of the flow of ideas from my mind to the computer screen.
That is not a bad thing. It’s just that most of the time I don’t really have any ideas and don’t have enough creativity in me to get started. I want the feeling of being productive and writing a worthwhile post, but I don’t necessarily have the substance to go along with that desire.
Sometimes I start writing, and then I get the flow of ideas. Most of the time I don’t think that it is enough. There is a mental feedback that comes up like clockwork. It comes from the childhood programming that I was dealt with by my mother. It gives all that it can give: “What you have is not good. No one wants to read that. It is not meaningful enough for the idea to be worth writing about. Don’t even try.”
Half of the battle of writing something, of producing something with a certain degree of creativity, is about quieting and ignoring those voices in my mind that I was programmed to have. Something that might take a person without that programming 5-10 minutes to do takes me 20-30 minutes to accomplish. It is a battle that plagues me from the moment that I have the desire to do something creative… and it doesn’t leave. Not even after I publish it.
I always have the tendency to think that people’s reaction to what I produce is always going to be negative. Part of that childhood programming. When I finally post something, it is done as an act of risk. I post something despite all of the internal messages of negativity that comes out of that programming. I may know rationally that something I write is worth posting, but it doesn’t matter. The programming causes fear of disrupting the external world in a negative way and I end up choosing to disrupt my internal world instead. I suffer the effects of not pursuing what that desire is and letting the biological energy dissipate without being used. It is a shame.
Not everything is due to that childhood programming, though. I also realize that I get distracted… a lot. That doesn’t help matters. I have to force myself to have ultimate silence to then be able to focus on my ideas and focus on writing it down. I can’t do more than one thing at a time, so that explains why a lot of ideas stay as… ideas. I get them but I don’t always have the discipline to write them down as soon as I get them.
I never really developed the discipline to write things down, much less with the intention of it being published because whenever I shared something as a child, it was met with negativity. Now as an adult, I have been slowly and painfully trying to re-educate myself into having a more positive attitude about myself and the potential impact that I could have in the world.
I might never be perfect. This is something that I might always struggle with. I may show something and think it is crap, and then I am met with feedback that I am doing exactly what I was meant to be doing. That is shocking to me. I never really experience that. It is always hard to believe that it is true and genuine. Hopefully, I can learn to internalize that good feedback better than I internalized the bad one as a child. Hopefully, I can re-train myself to have a more healthy perspective of myself, and the self-efficacy to produce more and publish more.