I just found out what it feels like to be the adult in a adult-teenager phone call… a really long phone call. As an INTJ, this is really draining. What I can say is that there is a conflict in my mind between my desire to hang up because I want some me time for myself and just pushing through my emotions so that the kid can have a healthy positive experience in his life.
Thankfully, I only have to deal with one kid calling. It could be worse.